Relationship Advice of the Day: “Worrying is a choice. Troubles come to every life but worries come only to those who decide to dwell on them.” By Tonja Wicks

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“Worrying is a choice. Troubles come to every life but worries come only to those who decide to dwell on them.”

By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

Reason of the Day: While life will not always be a bed of roses, the trials of life can be managed and overcome if we spend our time finding solutions instead of excuses. Worry and regret stills our joy. We worry because we usually get stuck in inaction and accept the trial or problem as permanent. Most problems are temporary until we get crippled by worry and choose not to act and change our way out of the situation.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise our readers to assess the relationship and then take action to change themselves and thus the relationship. However, the easiest way to stop yourself from action is to get mired in worry and regret. You worry because you do not take control of your situation and attempt to change it. You can’t wait for someone else to change first. You must change your situation first by changing the way you think, speak, act and feel.

The Author and new book “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” was featured at the NY Book Expo of America on May 29-June 1 in New York, NY.

The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24.

Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Advice of the Day: “The things you feel are wrong with your life didn’t happen all of a sudden so don’t expect everything to change overnight. Change, too, is a gradual process. However the ‘decision’ to change and be happy is immediate.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“The things you feel are wrong with your life didn’t happen all of a sudden so don’t expect everything to change overnight. Change, too, is a gradual process. However the ‘decision’ to change and be happy is immediate.”

Reason of the Day: Change first happens in the mind. You must first accept that there are areas that need change in your life and determine in your mind that you are willing to do what it takes to make that change your new reality. The change and happiness you seek won’t come over night; just like the dysfunction didn’t happen overnight. However, the decision to make the change and be happy can and should be immediate. Make the decision right now.

Little Book Advice: In our book, You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise our readers that you must acknowledge the dysfunction in your relationship and determine in your mind to change it. We ask are you willing to do whatever it takes to change the situation and grasp your happiness. If the answer is YES, you are well on your way to the love and relationship of your dreams. If your answer is NO, or many excuses follow, you are destined for heartache and unhappiness. Why live and love beneath you privilege.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author and new book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give” are being featured at the New York Book Expo new titles showcase on May 29-June 1, 2013.

The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Advice of the Day: “Things that are good for us we should keep close. Fear is not, so why let it get next to you?”

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"Things that are good for us we should keep close. Fear is 
not, so why let it get next to you?" By Tonja Wicks 
Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of 
"You're the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women 
Don't Give."

Reason of the Day: We like to keep company with people who amuse us, encourage us,  entertain us, etc. These are all great things. They are usually our mates, family, friends, and acquaintances. These are the types of things and people that can catapult us to our rightful destinies and attain our dreams.

On the flip side, we also know that the greatest hindrance to success and happiness is “fear”- fear of failing, fear of success, fear of the unknown-and the list goes on. So, if the previous list of things and people are those we should keep close to us, why do we keep letting “fear” get “next” to us??? If we allow it in our space it will dominate. Only the things you let near you can bother you. So don’t let fear get next to you, instead act as if it’s not there and focus on the positive things in your life that encourage you and bring you joy.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give”, we encourage our readers to throw fear out and act as if it doesn’t exist. Once you quiet the voice of fear you begin to hear a louder voice of “I can”: I can love more, I can say a kind word to my mate first, I can initiate intimacy, and I can make that change in my life and relationship. Fear is not you friend.., Faith is…

The Author and new best-selling book “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give” are being featured at the New York Book Expo’s “new title showcase” on May 29-June 1, 2013 in New York City.

The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Advice of the Day: “Faith is not just hoping something happens; it’s believing it already has.” By Tonja Wicks

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“Faith is not just hoping something happens; it’s believing it already has.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

Reason of the Day: You have to first make up in your mind, soul and spirit that what you’re believing for is going to happen. You can just hope on some days and wish on others. You have to be determined in your heart to see that dream become a reality and come to fruition, no matter what the circumstances look like. Your belief in that “thing” has to be unwavering.

Little Book Advice: In our book, You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that if you’re waiting on that soul mate to show up, you have to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he or she is coming. We suggest visualizing the outcome of love that you desire and fixate on that. Negative thoughts will try to come in your mind to cast doubt, but you must fixate back on the vision of that soul mate, passion you desire to get back in your relationship, or new journey in life you want to embark on. Our thoughts become desires, our desires become hopes, our hopes become beliefs, and our unwavering beliefs can become manifested reality.

The Author and book, You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give” will be featured at the New York Book Expo “New Titles” Showcase May 29-June 1, 2013 in New York City.  

The authors were also was featured and conducted book discussion and signing at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Don’t live life and love with caution; love with reckless abandon and live life with limitless possibilities” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

“Don’t live life and love with caution; love with reckless abandon and live life with limitless possibilities”

Reason of the Day: We are conditioned to be guarded and controlled over our emotions and dreams. In fact, this reservation to step out of the box actually is rooted in fear; fear if the unknown and fear of being alone. Sometimes when you do something different from the norm or your group of friends and family, it can leave you out there alone. But the joy and excitement that comes from acting on desires and dreams deep within will soon overshadow the fear and aloneness.

In fact, GOD and the Universe has a way of sending a new collection of people that think like you and pursue the unknown like you to anchor you and encourage you.

Little Book Advice: In our book You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” We advise that love is something that should be given freely. We don’t show love to our mates as often as we should or even think to because we get crippled by fear; the fear that it won’t be reciprocated, the fear of what our mate will say or not say, or the fear of doing something first. The key here is that it is all rooted in baseless fear. GET OVER IT! GET OVER YOURSELF! JUST DO IT! And see that the realities of love being returned from everywhere are endless.

In the book, we remind you that everyone loves to hear something loving or be shown loving affection. So, stop living and loving cautiously! Live and Love without worry or concern. Live and love the way your heart, not your mind, tells you to. Stop putting limits on your life. Take the limits off and love hard, live strong and be happy.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author and new book will be featured at the New York Book Expo May 29-June 1, 2013. Authors were featured and held book signings at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Don’t hold onto past memories rather let them flow thru your mind freely; if you hold onto your past you won’t be free to grab onto your future.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Don’t hold onto past memories rather let them flow thru your mind freely; if you hold onto your past you won’t be free to grab onto your future.”

Reason of the Day: The past is full of positive and negative experiences. While the bad memories are ones we’d like to forget, however, every time we think on them we tend to relive the bad experience. Let it go!

We shouldn’t hold onto the good memories either. When we focus or get too attached to the past, good or bad, we tend to compare every new experience to them. Let memories come and go freely through your mind.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that just because an experience is not the same or a person isn’t like the last one you dated, it is not a bad thing. While there were probably good memories with an old mate or relationship, there was still something missing or not quite complete because you’re not with them or in that relationship anymore. Don’t hold onto the memory, hold out for your new future which could look and be very different than your past.

Even if you find your future looks similar to your past, it ain’t the same. No two moments or people are exactly alike. So, reach for that something “new” and hold into it!

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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