Relationship Blog Advice of the Day: “Feed your mate, feed your soul.” By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Feed your mate, feed your soul.” Eating is one of the most basic activities we do. The Good Book says we must “eat to live”. Take the time to share a meal with your loved one and reap the benefits that come from the experience: Conversation is shared over a meal, intimacy is shared over a meal, and fulfillment comes from a meal.

Why do alone what you can do together? If the human body needs food for energy, imagine the connective energy two people generate when they share a meal together.

Reasoned Advice: Just a little advice-No one likes to eat alone. Invite someone to a meal or take the time to prepare a meal for someone and watch the emotional connection begin. Your soul will be enriched.

As a life and relationship coach, I promote the importance of “feeding” your mate. This is one of the “3Fs of the Love Strategy” in the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.” BOOKS AVAILABLE AT www.yourethereason.com

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.” The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24.

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Relationship Blog Advice of the Day: “Love is like a gift. You should give it without the ‘expectation’ of getting it back.” By Tonja Wicks, Author and motivational speaker

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“Love is like a gift. You should give it without the ‘expectation’ of getting it back.” The Good Book says “we love because HE first loved us.” What a great example.

So give love without the expectation of getting it back. Whether you receive love back from the one you give it to or not, the Universe will send love to you in countless other ways and by many different sources.

By Tonja Wicks, Author of the Best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give” BOOKS AVAILABLE AT WWW.YOURETHEREASON.COM

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Relationship Blog Advice of the Day: “You can change your relationship with a touch. A touch not only stimulates the body, it opens the heart.” By best-selling author and Motivational Speaker Tonja Wicks

Affection is key to maintaining a healthy and passionate relationship. We talk about this in our best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.” It’s a fact, Men and women need affection. So why are you denying yourself and your mate an innate human desire and need?

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By Author, Life Coach and Motivational Speaker, Tonja Wicks
“You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

BOOKS AVAILABLE AT http://www.yourethereason.com

Relationship Blog: “Words don’t drip like water and they can’t be wiped up once spilled. Once the mess is gone, the words still live forever in the minds of those receiving them.” By Best-Selling Author and motivational Speaker, Tonja Wicks

Reason of the Day: Be mindful of how you talk to your loved ones. In our best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give”, we like to ask the question: How are you talking to and touching your mate? The first question is the one I’m addressing today. What you say may be the last words someone hears. Make sure it is a loving and encouraging one. It’s a choice to be kind and loving. Remember- what you give out is what you get back.

In the book, we call this one of the “3Fs of the Love Strategy”. If you follow the 3Fs, you are destined to attract, catch and keep the mate of your dreams. By Tonja Wicks, Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give”

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Relationship Blog-Reason of the Day: “It takes drive, commitment and perseverance to accomplish life’s goals and attain your dreams.” By Tonja Wicks, Author and Life Coach

Relationship Blog-Reason of the Day:  

“It takes drive, commitment and perseverance to accomplish life’s goals and attain your dreams.” By Tonja  Wicks, Author and Life Coach

Everyone has a dream. You just may not verbalize it or identify it as such. 

1. What are you’re dreams? [ex. marry person of your dreams, have a family, help others, be rich and famous] 

2. What are you doing to attain your dreams?  

3. Do you have what it takes to make your dreams come true?? 
OF COURSE YOU DO…… Get to driving!!

Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give”. Books available at http://www.yourethereason.com

Reason of the Day: “Dreams lie in the recesses of your mind. Acknowledge them, Let them out and you can begin living the best life GOD intended for you.”

Nothing is impossible! All you have to do is start. Start loving that mate the way you used to, start complimenting that mate the way you did when you first met, and continue to believe you can have the happiness you dream of.

By Tonja  Wicks, Author and Life Coach. Author of  the best-selling book “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give”.

Books available at http://www.yourethereason.com

Reason for Today: “In order to reach and fulfill your dreams, you must lay hands on the ideas in your mind and bring them from a thought to a visible action in your present reality.” By Tonja Wicks, Best-Selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give” books avail at www.yourethereason.com

That dream will be different for you than any other individual. It is uniquely yours. And how you go about attaining it will be a journey all your own. The pathway may be similar to another but the journey will not. Whether it is attracting, getting and keeping the mate of your dreams, writing a book, starting a business, etc., you must have the right tools and possess the right positive attitude. 

Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give”. 

Books available at http://www.yourethereason.com

“If you don’t tell someone you love them, they may never know.”

“If you don’t tell someone you love them, they may never know.”

It’s one day after  Valentine’s day and have you told your mate you love them? I get it- you’ll wait until next valentine’s day to tell them.

Bad idea! This is the reason your man cheats, your woman cheats and countless men and women are unfulfilled. In my book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give”, we explain that there are 3 essential components to having a loving and lasting relationship. We call them the “3Fs of our Love Strategy”. First, You must “Fill” your mate with words of love and encouragement.

The reason we don’t say it first is because of pride or protection of that  self-inflated ego. To put it plainly, you’re scared.. You’re scared to put yourself out there first for fear that the sentiment may not be reciprocated. Everyone needs to be vulnerable to someone.

 

Tell someone you love them today and see how great it makes “you” feel.  And you may even get the sentiment repeated back. You won’t know unless you try.

By Tonja  Wicks, Author and Life Coach

Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give”.

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Love everyone you can…As often as you can… And you will be filled with Love all the time.

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“If you encourage others to pursue their dreams, you can actually motivate yourself to pursue your own” by Tonja Wicks
Author of You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give” available at http://www.yourethereason.com

Go for it! Whatever that it is: The love of your life, the new job, start a business, write a book, go back to school.