Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “A smile and a laugh tell the world you’re happy; it also tells your heart to be too.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“A smile and a laugh tell the world you’re happy; it also tells your heart to be too.”

Reason of the Day: Remember, you control what feelings you hold on to and display. You make the choice to be happy regardless of what is happening around you. Let old hurts, feelings, and memories go and move forward with renewed love, joy, and happiness.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that if you show love, joy and happiness, others directly around you will receive it, be blessed by it, and likely return it. The choice to act lies with you. Many times we don’t show love or choose to be happy for fear the result won’t be what we expect. We say GET OVER YOURSELF!!

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.” The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join our next the book discussion and book signing. For more information check our website at www.yourethereason.com.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Men and women were not meant to be alone. Don’t deny yourself true fulfillment by denying yourself a true connection with another, albeit love, friendship, or kinship”. “By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Men and women were not meant to be alone. Don’t deny yourself true fulfillment by denying yourself a true connection with another, albeit love, friendship, or kinship”.

Reason of the Day: Humans thrive on the presence, companionship and touch of another.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we propose women and men implement the “3Fs of our Love Strategy”. One vital component critical to the success and vitality of any romantic relationship is to show and give affection. In the book, we call it the 3rd F–“Feeling” your mate. Physical affection awakens the emotions and the senses of another. So why deny yourself and your mate that opportunity.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing on Saturday. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Spring symbolizes love; like a flower that blooms in springtime, love appears and changes form as it matures in its own season.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Spring symbolizes love; like a flower that blooms in springtime, love appears and changes form as it matures in its own season.”

Reason of the Day: Love doesn’t come every day. True love comes in its due season.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we have chapters especially for singles. For our singles, I advise, “let your season come; just like winter turned to spring today, the Universe will turn your season of singleness into one of blissful mating and marriage if you allow it to come naturally.”

We ask in the book,  Did you wait for your season and your “right” love mate to come along or did you just settle for any old body to say you have a mate? The difference in the answer is the difference between a happy and joyous relationship and one filled with pain, heartache and displeasure.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Opportunities come to everyone; it’s those that are prepared that turn opportunities into successes.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Opportunities come to everyone; it’s those that are prepared that turn opportunities into successes”

Reason of the Day: The question is: If the right opportunity came today, would you be able to capitalize on it? The Good Book says to “be prepared in and out of season”. Although your season may not be here, are you prepared for what it is you dream and desire to have? What are you doing today to achieve your goals, for example, lose weight, compete for that promotion, seek a new job, prepare yourself for the ideal mate, etc?

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that you should do things to better yourself whether there is a man involved or not. When you feel good about you, that confidence exudes and attracts people to you.
By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Action gets things done; thinking just gets you thinking about doing something.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Action gets things done; thinking just gets you thinking about doing something.”

Reason of the Day: The truth is that once you act, the Universe responds to your faith in action and pushes you even further toward your dreams. STOP thinking about acting and just act! Regardless of the outcome, you will be better for it.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we coach that you must “get over yourself!” Many times we don’t act because we are afraid of what someone will say, not say, do or not do. It is simply fear. Fear can cripple people and keep them stuck in dysfunction.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”
The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “If you don’t know what you want, then you will accept anything from anybody at any time.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“If you don’t know what you want, then you will accept anything from anybody at any time.”

Reason of the Day: Whether it is a dream, a life plan or a temporary path in life, you must identify it and pursue. If you don’t identify the pathway for yourself someone else will direct you down a path that’s best for them.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we help women identify what they like to do or not do through the use of our “Love Exercise”: 15 questions for 15 days. The goal is to identify what you are doing or not doing in the relationship. No answer is right or wrong. The Love Exercise usually highlights what you typically like doing or not doing in or out of a relationship. Until you know what you like and what makes you happy, you can’t truly make another happy.

Sometimes you find out the things you’re not doing in the relationship or not doing for your mate was something you never liked doing in the first place, i.e, cooking, spending time with his friends and family, sex a certain amount of time, etc. Find out who you are first and then you will find a mate that you are truly compatible with.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “A leader is a leader once he has one follower and/or supporter. A word of encouragement takes nothing from you but could mean the difference between success and failure for someone else.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“A leader is a leader once he has one follower and/or supporter. A word of encouragement takes nothing from you but could mean the difference between success and failure for someone else.”

Reason of the Day: “If you encourage and tell your mate they can do something, they will act like superman and show you the “S”‘ on their chest to fulfill it. Words are powerful. Words coming from someone you love and trust are food for the soul. Who are you supporting and following to help them reach their God-inspired destiny?

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise implementing the “3Fs of our Love Strategy.” You must “FILL” your mate up with words of encouragement and support. We confront enough negativity outside the home; don’t create that same environment in your home! Your mate will always want to come home to you to escape the world. By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Dreams can come true! It takes three things to make a dream a reality: Trust in the dream, believe in you and act on the impulse.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Dreams can come true! It takes three things to make a dream a reality: Trust in the dream, believe in you and act on the impulse.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

Reason of the Day: First, Anything you wish to attain in your life starts out as a thought or a dream. If you conceived it in your mind it is something you desire in your heart. Trust your desires, thus trust in your dreams.

Secondly, you must believe in yourself. You may not have all of the experience, money, contacts, etc. to obtain the dream, but believe that you have what it takes to find a way to get what is needed to succeed.

Thirdly, everyone has great ideas. It is said that no idea is new. It’s just that someone, and that could be you, acts on the thought. Take the first step on faith and watch the next steps come naturally.

In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that you must first see your relationship the way you want it and then take steps to do your part to make it a reality. All you can do is your part, but it first takes a vision or dream of the future, belief and confidence in yourself, and action to make it happen.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “It takes time to chew your food during a meal. When you share a meal with someone else, you can take that moment to listen to their needs and wants and share yours. ” By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,”

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“It takes time to chew your food during a meal. When you share a meal with someone else, you can take that moment to listen to their needs and wants and share yours. ”

Reason of the Day: Dining together with a loved one, someone you want to love, or family and friends can be an intimate experience. The silence that occurs allows each an opportunity to share what’s on their mind and listen to what’s on yours. We believe this to be essential to building and maintaining a lasting and loving relationship.

In our best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we coach couples that you must “FEED” your mate. It is one of the “3Fs of our Love Strategy.”

Little Advice: Men hate to eat alone. Keep a man company during a meal and he will share things with you doing those moments.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Advice of the Day: “Give someone a hug or a little affection; that maybe the only human contact they receive today.” By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,”

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“Give someone a hug or a little affection; that maybe the only human contact they receive today.”

Reason of the Day: Studies show that humans touch their faces between 4,000-6,000 times a day. Clearly, we love ourselves. But studies also show that humans can go an entire 24 hours without touching another human being.

Whether loved one or stranger, reach out and touch someone today. The touch can be as simple as a grab of the hand, touch on the arm, or pat on the back.

In our best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we coach couples that you must “show” love by displaying affection. This is one of the “3Fs of our Love Strategy”. We call this “Feeling” your mate. It is vitally important to touch and stroke your mate in a loving and passionate way. It sends the signal to your mate that they are still desirable and wanted by you.

Litle Reason Advice: If you don’t show your mate affection, they will likely seek it outside of your relationship. So do yourself a favor, feel and touch your mate in a loving way and see that touch ignite a little passion. It’s never too late. By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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