Relationship Advice Blog: “Use What’s in Your Hand.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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QUOTE: “Use what’s in your hand.”

By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

Reason of the Day:  GOD has equipped each one of us with gifts, talents and treasures that we may not have tapped into. Many times the answer to our prayers is already in our hands, minds and body. So use what is already in your hands.

A Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise our readers to exhaust every option that they can control before seeking their mate to make a change. We must first work on ourselves—because we all still need work– before we can demand of others.

In doing so, we advise to use what’s in your hand, because we all possess great and infinite potential. If you’re happy with yourself and what you create and accomplish, you will be confident to cheer and encourage your mate to achieve his/her best life. It all starts with you. If not, you will be the reason you man cheats….

The Author, Tonja Wicks,  will be a featured speaker on relationships on the EVS Network Virtual Teleconference in February, alongside TV Judge Glenda Hatchett, Life Coach, Christina Young, Psychologist, Dr. Gloria Morrow, and conference creator, Sharon Jarrett.

The Author and new book “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” was featured at the NY Book Expo of America on May 29-June 1 in New York, NY.

The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24.

Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Advice of the Day: “Things that are good for us we should keep close. Fear is not, so why let it get next to you?”

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"Things that are good for us we should keep close. Fear is 
not, so why let it get next to you?" By Tonja Wicks 
Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of 
"You're the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women 
Don't Give."

Reason of the Day: We like to keep company with people who amuse us, encourage us,  entertain us, etc. These are all great things. They are usually our mates, family, friends, and acquaintances. These are the types of things and people that can catapult us to our rightful destinies and attain our dreams.

On the flip side, we also know that the greatest hindrance to success and happiness is “fear”- fear of failing, fear of success, fear of the unknown-and the list goes on. So, if the previous list of things and people are those we should keep close to us, why do we keep letting “fear” get “next” to us??? If we allow it in our space it will dominate. Only the things you let near you can bother you. So don’t let fear get next to you, instead act as if it’s not there and focus on the positive things in your life that encourage you and bring you joy.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give”, we encourage our readers to throw fear out and act as if it doesn’t exist. Once you quiet the voice of fear you begin to hear a louder voice of “I can”: I can love more, I can say a kind word to my mate first, I can initiate intimacy, and I can make that change in my life and relationship. Fear is not you friend.., Faith is…

The Author and new best-selling book “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give” are being featured at the New York Book Expo’s “new title showcase” on May 29-June 1, 2013 in New York City.

The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Advice of the Day: “Faith is not just hoping something happens; it’s believing it already has.” By Tonja Wicks

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“Faith is not just hoping something happens; it’s believing it already has.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

Reason of the Day: You have to first make up in your mind, soul and spirit that what you’re believing for is going to happen. You can just hope on some days and wish on others. You have to be determined in your heart to see that dream become a reality and come to fruition, no matter what the circumstances look like. Your belief in that “thing” has to be unwavering.

Little Book Advice: In our book, You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that if you’re waiting on that soul mate to show up, you have to know beyond a shadow of a doubt that he or she is coming. We suggest visualizing the outcome of love that you desire and fixate on that. Negative thoughts will try to come in your mind to cast doubt, but you must fixate back on the vision of that soul mate, passion you desire to get back in your relationship, or new journey in life you want to embark on. Our thoughts become desires, our desires become hopes, our hopes become beliefs, and our unwavering beliefs can become manifested reality.

The Author and book, You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give” will be featured at the New York Book Expo “New Titles” Showcase May 29-June 1, 2013 in New York City.  

The authors were also was featured and conducted book discussion and signing at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “A smile and a laugh tell the world you’re happy; it also tells your heart to be too.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“A smile and a laugh tell the world you’re happy; it also tells your heart to be too.”

Reason of the Day: Remember, you control what feelings you hold on to and display. You make the choice to be happy regardless of what is happening around you. Let old hurts, feelings, and memories go and move forward with renewed love, joy, and happiness.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that if you show love, joy and happiness, others directly around you will receive it, be blessed by it, and likely return it. The choice to act lies with you. Many times we don’t show love or choose to be happy for fear the result won’t be what we expect. We say GET OVER YOURSELF!!

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.” The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join our next the book discussion and book signing. For more information check our website at www.yourethereason.com.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Men and women were not meant to be alone. Don’t deny yourself true fulfillment by denying yourself a true connection with another, albeit love, friendship, or kinship”. “By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Men and women were not meant to be alone. Don’t deny yourself true fulfillment by denying yourself a true connection with another, albeit love, friendship, or kinship”.

Reason of the Day: Humans thrive on the presence, companionship and touch of another.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we propose women and men implement the “3Fs of our Love Strategy”. One vital component critical to the success and vitality of any romantic relationship is to show and give affection. In the book, we call it the 3rd F–“Feeling” your mate. Physical affection awakens the emotions and the senses of another. So why deny yourself and your mate that opportunity.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing on Saturday. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Spring symbolizes love; like a flower that blooms in springtime, love appears and changes form as it matures in its own season.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Spring symbolizes love; like a flower that blooms in springtime, love appears and changes form as it matures in its own season.”

Reason of the Day: Love doesn’t come every day. True love comes in its due season.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we have chapters especially for singles. For our singles, I advise, “let your season come; just like winter turned to spring today, the Universe will turn your season of singleness into one of blissful mating and marriage if you allow it to come naturally.”

We ask in the book,  Did you wait for your season and your “right” love mate to come along or did you just settle for any old body to say you have a mate? The difference in the answer is the difference between a happy and joyous relationship and one filled with pain, heartache and displeasure.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Opportunities come to everyone; it’s those that are prepared that turn opportunities into successes.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Opportunities come to everyone; it’s those that are prepared that turn opportunities into successes”

Reason of the Day: The question is: If the right opportunity came today, would you be able to capitalize on it? The Good Book says to “be prepared in and out of season”. Although your season may not be here, are you prepared for what it is you dream and desire to have? What are you doing today to achieve your goals, for example, lose weight, compete for that promotion, seek a new job, prepare yourself for the ideal mate, etc?

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that you should do things to better yourself whether there is a man involved or not. When you feel good about you, that confidence exudes and attracts people to you.
By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Action gets things done; thinking just gets you thinking about doing something.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Action gets things done; thinking just gets you thinking about doing something.”

Reason of the Day: The truth is that once you act, the Universe responds to your faith in action and pushes you even further toward your dreams. STOP thinking about acting and just act! Regardless of the outcome, you will be better for it.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we coach that you must “get over yourself!” Many times we don’t act because we are afraid of what someone will say, not say, do or not do. It is simply fear. Fear can cripple people and keep them stuck in dysfunction.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”
The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “If you don’t know what you want, then you will accept anything from anybody at any time.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“If you don’t know what you want, then you will accept anything from anybody at any time.”

Reason of the Day: Whether it is a dream, a life plan or a temporary path in life, you must identify it and pursue. If you don’t identify the pathway for yourself someone else will direct you down a path that’s best for them.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we help women identify what they like to do or not do through the use of our “Love Exercise”: 15 questions for 15 days. The goal is to identify what you are doing or not doing in the relationship. No answer is right or wrong. The Love Exercise usually highlights what you typically like doing or not doing in or out of a relationship. Until you know what you like and what makes you happy, you can’t truly make another happy.

Sometimes you find out the things you’re not doing in the relationship or not doing for your mate was something you never liked doing in the first place, i.e, cooking, spending time with his friends and family, sex a certain amount of time, etc. Find out who you are first and then you will find a mate that you are truly compatible with.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “A leader is a leader once he has one follower and/or supporter. A word of encouragement takes nothing from you but could mean the difference between success and failure for someone else.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“A leader is a leader once he has one follower and/or supporter. A word of encouragement takes nothing from you but could mean the difference between success and failure for someone else.”

Reason of the Day: “If you encourage and tell your mate they can do something, they will act like superman and show you the “S”‘ on their chest to fulfill it. Words are powerful. Words coming from someone you love and trust are food for the soul. Who are you supporting and following to help them reach their God-inspired destiny?

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise implementing the “3Fs of our Love Strategy.” You must “FILL” your mate up with words of encouragement and support. We confront enough negativity outside the home; don’t create that same environment in your home! Your mate will always want to come home to you to escape the world. By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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