Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Don’t live life and love with caution; love with reckless abandon and live life with limitless possibilities” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

“Don’t live life and love with caution; love with reckless abandon and live life with limitless possibilities”

Reason of the Day: We are conditioned to be guarded and controlled over our emotions and dreams. In fact, this reservation to step out of the box actually is rooted in fear; fear if the unknown and fear of being alone. Sometimes when you do something different from the norm or your group of friends and family, it can leave you out there alone. But the joy and excitement that comes from acting on desires and dreams deep within will soon overshadow the fear and aloneness.

In fact, GOD and the Universe has a way of sending a new collection of people that think like you and pursue the unknown like you to anchor you and encourage you.

Little Book Advice: In our book You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” We advise that love is something that should be given freely. We don’t show love to our mates as often as we should or even think to because we get crippled by fear; the fear that it won’t be reciprocated, the fear of what our mate will say or not say, or the fear of doing something first. The key here is that it is all rooted in baseless fear. GET OVER IT! GET OVER YOURSELF! JUST DO IT! And see that the realities of love being returned from everywhere are endless.

In the book, we remind you that everyone loves to hear something loving or be shown loving affection. So, stop living and loving cautiously! Live and Love without worry or concern. Live and love the way your heart, not your mind, tells you to. Stop putting limits on your life. Take the limits off and love hard, live strong and be happy.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author and new book will be featured at the New York Book Expo May 29-June 1, 2013. Authors were featured and held book signings at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Age is just a number we count yearly; life is an experience you live daily. What are you counting?” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Age is just a number we count yearly; life is an experience you live daily. What are you counting?”

Reason of the Day: As I plan my great aunt pearl’s 100th birthday celebration, I realize that age is just a number we get hung up on in our younger years. When you get to be 100, and not all will be that blessed, and you’re in good mental and physical health, it’s the experiences you’ve lived through not the number of years that counts.

Aunt Pearl has some great memories. She often fixates on a select few of them because they brought joy and laughter. So, as my family and friends celebrate this wonderful woman at a 100th birthday dinner celebration in her honor tomorrow, April 13th, I will forever be reminded to count life’s experiences not age.

Pearlie wanted to celebrate at her favorite soul food restaurant in Inglewood, CA, M & M’s Mississippi Soul Food. Aunt Pearl is from MS and loves her chittlins, fried catfish and corn bread.

I pray longevity is in the genes.

Little Book Advice: In our book, You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that “It’s never too late to start something new.” Start living more, loving more, and start trusting more. Things can’t change if you don’t.

My Aunt just realized she likes bingo. Go figure… I thought all seasoned individuals liked bingo… If she can start something new at 100, you have no excuse.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author ‘s new book will be feature in the “new book release showcase” at the New York Book Expo, May 30-June 1. The author conducted book discussion and book signing at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Don’t hold onto past memories rather let them flow thru your mind freely; if you hold onto your past you won’t be free to grab onto your future.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Don’t hold onto past memories rather let them flow thru your mind freely; if you hold onto your past you won’t be free to grab onto your future.”

Reason of the Day: The past is full of positive and negative experiences. While the bad memories are ones we’d like to forget, however, every time we think on them we tend to relive the bad experience. Let it go!

We shouldn’t hold onto the good memories either. When we focus or get too attached to the past, good or bad, we tend to compare every new experience to them. Let memories come and go freely through your mind.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that just because an experience is not the same or a person isn’t like the last one you dated, it is not a bad thing. While there were probably good memories with an old mate or relationship, there was still something missing or not quite complete because you’re not with them or in that relationship anymore. Don’t hold onto the memory, hold out for your new future which could look and be very different than your past.

Even if you find your future looks similar to your past, it ain’t the same. No two moments or people are exactly alike. So, reach for that something “new” and hold into it!

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: ” Life is not a straight path so when it doesn’t seem to be going your way, keep walking; life will eventually swerve back into your pathway if you don’t give up.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

 

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“ Life is not a straight path so when it doesn't seem to be going your way, keep walking; life will eventually swerve back into your pathway if you don't give up."  

Reason of the Day: Life may not be perfect but it is still happening. If you continue to move forward each day and pursue the passions placed in you, eventually you will see progress. The thing you have to do is not give up.

Little Book Advice: In our book, You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that we may not be able to change another person or a circumstance, but if we take a look at self and identify any areas that can be enhanced with change, we can change our outlook. Small changes we make can make others examine their behavior and actions and want to change too.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at a future book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “In the end, success is not measured by the title you hold but by the lives you impact.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“In the end, success is not measured by the title you hold but by the lives you impact.”

Reason of the Day: The ultimate goal here on earth should be to positively impact a life or the lives of many. It’s wonderful to be abundantly blessed financially,  but if you keep those riches to yourself and never seek to help others with your great fortune, you will never realize the true potential of your life’s purpose.

While money is one of society’s measurements of success, the way you spend your time is also a measurement. You do not need to have millions in the bank to impact and change a life. The time you spend with a child, the elderly, loved ones, or even conversation and assistance to strangers in need, defines success.

Little Book Advice: In our book, You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that time spent with your mate can’t be replaced. It is imperative that we make time to be with the mate we chose. It’s in those shared moments that intimate dialogue and physical affection can result.

A happy and fulfilled relationship is another measurement of success. It takes commitment, dedication, understanding and compromise to achieve. And the impact you have on that life and the lives that may flow from that relationship will be seen by the world for generations to come.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author was featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Men and women were not meant to be alone. Don’t deny yourself true fulfillment by denying yourself a true connection with another, albeit love, friendship, or kinship”. “By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Men and women were not meant to be alone. Don’t deny yourself true fulfillment by denying yourself a true connection with another, albeit love, friendship, or kinship”.

Reason of the Day: Humans thrive on the presence, companionship and touch of another.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we propose women and men implement the “3Fs of our Love Strategy”. One vital component critical to the success and vitality of any romantic relationship is to show and give affection. In the book, we call it the 3rd F–“Feeling” your mate. Physical affection awakens the emotions and the senses of another. So why deny yourself and your mate that opportunity.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing on Saturday. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Spring symbolizes love; like a flower that blooms in springtime, love appears and changes form as it matures in its own season.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Spring symbolizes love; like a flower that blooms in springtime, love appears and changes form as it matures in its own season.”

Reason of the Day: Love doesn’t come every day. True love comes in its due season.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we have chapters especially for singles. For our singles, I advise, “let your season come; just like winter turned to spring today, the Universe will turn your season of singleness into one of blissful mating and marriage if you allow it to come naturally.”

We ask in the book,  Did you wait for your season and your “right” love mate to come along or did you just settle for any old body to say you have a mate? The difference in the answer is the difference between a happy and joyous relationship and one filled with pain, heartache and displeasure.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Opportunities come to everyone; it’s those that are prepared that turn opportunities into successes.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Opportunities come to everyone; it’s those that are prepared that turn opportunities into successes”

Reason of the Day: The question is: If the right opportunity came today, would you be able to capitalize on it? The Good Book says to “be prepared in and out of season”. Although your season may not be here, are you prepared for what it is you dream and desire to have? What are you doing today to achieve your goals, for example, lose weight, compete for that promotion, seek a new job, prepare yourself for the ideal mate, etc?

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we advise that you should do things to better yourself whether there is a man involved or not. When you feel good about you, that confidence exudes and attracts people to you.
By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing. For more information log onto out website at http://www.yourethereason.com

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “Action gets things done; thinking just gets you thinking about doing something.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“Action gets things done; thinking just gets you thinking about doing something.”

Reason of the Day: The truth is that once you act, the Universe responds to your faith in action and pushes you even further toward your dreams. STOP thinking about acting and just act! Regardless of the outcome, you will be better for it.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we coach that you must “get over yourself!” Many times we don’t act because we are afraid of what someone will say, not say, do or not do. It is simply fear. Fear can cripple people and keep them stuck in dysfunction.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”
The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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Relationship Book Blog Advice of the Day: “If you don’t know what you want, then you will accept anything from anybody at any time.” By Tonja Wicks Motivational Speaker, Life Coach and Best-selling Author of, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

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“If you don’t know what you want, then you will accept anything from anybody at any time.”

Reason of the Day: Whether it is a dream, a life plan or a temporary path in life, you must identify it and pursue. If you don’t identify the pathway for yourself someone else will direct you down a path that’s best for them.

Little Book Advice: In our book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give,” we help women identify what they like to do or not do through the use of our “Love Exercise”: 15 questions for 15 days. The goal is to identify what you are doing or not doing in the relationship. No answer is right or wrong. The Love Exercise usually highlights what you typically like doing or not doing in or out of a relationship. Until you know what you like and what makes you happy, you can’t truly make another happy.

Sometimes you find out the things you’re not doing in the relationship or not doing for your mate was something you never liked doing in the first place, i.e, cooking, spending time with his friends and family, sex a certain amount of time, etc. Find out who you are first and then you will find a mate that you are truly compatible with.

By Tonja Wicks, Motivational Speaker, Life Coach, and Author of the best-selling book, “You’re the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don’t Give.”

The Author will be featured at the upcoming Get Radical Women’s Conference at the Hyatt Hotel in Reston, VA March 22-24. Come out and join us at the book discussion and book signing.

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